by FreezeFlame » Thu Aug 27, 2009 10:23 pm
Rikimaru wrote:Well, you don't necessarily have to marry someone to be in love with them....
According to the poll, I can either "love her enough for marriage", or have her "as a crush".
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by Rikimaru » Fri Aug 28, 2009 7:49 am
FreezeFlame wrote:Rikimaru wrote:Well, you don't necessarily have to marry someone to be in love with them....
According to the poll, I can either "love her enough for marriage", or have her "as a crush".
Your point is well taken; however, you can still love enough to want for a marriage yet decide against it because of circumstances such as age. Want is the keyword here.
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by FreezeFlame » Sat Aug 29, 2009 4:01 am
Rikimaru wrote:FreezeFlame wrote:Rikimaru wrote:Well, you don't necessarily have to marry someone to be in love with them....
According to the poll, I can either "love her enough for marriage", or have her "as a crush".
Your point is well taken; however, you can still love enough to want for a marriage yet decide against it because of circumstances such as age. Want is the keyword here.
Well, I certainly don't want marriage. It seems "crush" would best describe my affection towards her. Being that certain kinds of "love" turns into obsession, such as wanting to marry her. I'd rather not obsess over that.
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by Rikimaru » Sat Aug 29, 2009 5:56 am
FreezeFlame wrote:Well, I certainly don't want marriage. It seems "crush" would best describe my affection towards her. Being that certain kinds of "love" turns into obsession, such as wanting to marry her. I'd rather not obsess over that.
Well, it's good that you're sure of where you stand. Although I'm getting the vibe that you don't think too optimistically about love.
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by FreezeFlame » Sat Aug 29, 2009 3:18 pm
Yeah, I don't have positive outlooks on that emotion. One reason being that I cannot confront the opposite sex and claim any love. Therefore I have decided to live on my own. I also have Malaxophobia.
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by WatC4 » Sat Aug 29, 2009 4:12 pm
i see her as a good friend. it describes it perfectly.
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by Rikimaru » Sat Aug 29, 2009 8:44 pm
FreezeFlame wrote:Yeah, I don't have positive outlooks on that emotion. One reason being that I cannot confront the opposite sex and claim any love. Therefore I have decided to live on my own. I also have Malaxophobia.
That's a hard thing to admit FF, luckily you got us  . I guess the best way to comfortably interact with people you like (personality-wise) is to just totally ignore things such as sex, race, and social status. People are people, basically. I think that once you are able to confront the opposite sex, you'll have a completely different outlook on this emotion. Also, what's Malaxophobia? I'd like to get a specific definition from you, since you apparently have it and I'm quite too lazy to look it up. And Wat, I just realized how little you post on the forums. 
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by Zehdils » Sat Aug 29, 2009 8:46 pm
Probably #2. Cause I'm basicly 13 and doesn't need marriage T_T, Though I would probably date her if I could get the courage to ask her. Also, For an odd reason, the last 2 days I've just been pulled to Midna again ^-^.
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by FreezeFlame » Sun Aug 30, 2009 12:56 am
Rikimaru wrote:FreezeFlame wrote:Yeah, I don't have positive outlooks on that emotion. One reason being that I cannot confront the opposite sex and claim any love. Therefore I have decided to live on my own. I also have Malaxophobia.
That's a hard thing to admit FF, luckily you got us  . I guess the best way to comfortably interact with people you like (personality-wise) is to just totally ignore things such as sex, race, and social status. People are people, basically. I think that once you are able to confront the opposite sex, you'll have a completely different outlook on this emotion. Also, what's Malaxophobia? I'd like to get a specific definition from you, since you apparently have it and I'm quite too lazy to look it up. And Wat, I just realized how little you post on the forums. 
Yeah, this community is great. We all share similar interests, which makes me feel welcome and able to express my thoughts. Also, Malaxophobia is "fear of love play".
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by Rikimaru » Wed Sep 09, 2009 4:04 am
Actually, if there would be a spot in between Lover and Best Friend, I'd be there. She's just so lovable and all, but because of the situations (you know, reality and stuff), I don't think she could be someone I could marry. Plus, what FF said is true, I don't think anyone here would be ready for that kind of thing. To me, Midna seems to be the sort of girl that you'd just adore and love, but you know you won't be able to get. Not because of stupid courage/inspiration problems, but because of legitimate reasons such as reality vs fiction or, in a less cynical approach, a non-mutual love. I don't know why, but for some reason I would think that Midna wouldn't feel the same way as i would her. Despite this, I'd want to be with her at all the times. To simply enjoy her graceful presence would be enough for satisfaction. I now change my vote to Other. This is where I stand.
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